Why Can’t My Son Mow?

September 24, 2015 | By | Comments (4)
Son Can't mow

In retrospect, using a bagger wasn’t the smartest idea. Photo: jackssmallengines.com

Faithful reader D.T. Matthews writes, “When my son cuts the grass, it leaves clumps all over the yard. Everywhere he cuts, it looks terrible. My neighbors are ready to run me out of the neighborhood. What is he doing wrong?”

Grumpy’s Surprising Answer: Don’t be so hard on the poor guy, D. T. Do you know how many of us have sons who hang out in the man cave all day staring at their smart phones, laptops, and big screens — simultaneously? You could take a time-lapse photo and it wouldn’t be blurred. Your motion detector burglar alarm system would be silent as a lamb. At least, your son cuts the grass.

Son Can't Mow

Whoops! Missed one! Photo: weed-pro.com

Perhaps you’d like him to cut it more precisely, like above, but frankly that just ain’t gonna happen unless you pay him per blade.

There are two main reasons grass clumps when it exits the mower.

1. Either the grass is getting too high between mowings or your son is mowing too low. Never cut off more than 1/3 of the grass blades in one cutting. Therefore, if the grass is three inches tall, don’t cut it lower than two inches. Cutting off more not only injures the grass, but it also produces a shipload of clippings that clump.

2. Cutting wet grass. Never do this. Wet grass clumps. Wait to mow until the grass blades are dry.

Should Grumpy’s brilliant suggestions fail to improve your son’s performance, there is one last, albeit extreme, measure you can take.

Photo: tomkellyconsulting.com_

Photo: tomkellyconsulting.com_

Mow it yourself.  Looking good.

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Outstanding Gardens

Pearl Fryar’s South Carolina garden. Photo: Marion Brenner

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Pearl Fryar

Photo: Marion Brenner

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Patti McGee

McGee garden, Charleston. Photo: Marion Brenner

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  2. Jennifer

    My boys always worked outside with their Father. He always made sure they helped him rake, pick up twigs and tree branches, and when it came time to let them do more when they were older teenagers, they did an equally good job on the lawn. You have to train them early… you can’t let them stay indoors playing video games until age 15, then expect them to take interest in what goes on around the house…

    September 26, 2015 at 11:58 am
  3. Kathleen

    Yes, it’s called passive aggressive. Worked well for one of my sons, too.

    September 24, 2015 at 3:48 pm
  4. Jill

    There is the possibility that the teen boy child would LIKE to get kicked off the job… Failing on purpose has been known to happen.

    September 24, 2015 at 12:23 pm

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